Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.17.2022

nvnzzeza • 17 February 2022

Love & Logic Article by Jim Fay:  Enforceable Limits

“Love and Logic teaches that parents, as well as teachers, must use enforceable statements if they want to set effective limits. Enforceable statements are powerful because the adult owns the response, not the child. In contrast, unenforceable statements give the power of the response to the child, and the adult loses control. Setting limits with enforceable statements is an essential technique for parents and teachers who use Love and Logic in the home or classroom.  Being able to deliver enforceable statements without lecturing, threatening, or showing anger is an acquired skill and must be practiced like any other skill. When an adult learns to use this important skill, the stress on the adult disappears and kids learns to become responsible for their choices.

Years ago, a teacher shared an insight with me about the value of setting limits for kids in her classroom and how she learned to use this skill properly. She was using enforceable statements but was struggling when kids tested her limits. When they tried to test her, she would use the phrase, “So what did I say?” However, she realized that she was getting frustrated and mad at the kids whenever they tested a limit. Then she explained how she changed her view of what was happening:  “Here’s what’s so great, Jim. Now I tell myself that they are just checking to see if I still love them enough to provide limits. It’s a totally different mindset. I still say, ‘So what did I say?’ when they test a limit. But when I do, I feel like I’m giving them a gift.”

Set limits with enforceable statements. When limits are tested, follow through with empathy and understanding, realizing that you are truly giving kids a gift—the gift of learning how to make responsible, respectful decisions on their own.”

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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 03.09.2023

by nvnzzeza • 9 March 2023
HAVE A RESTFUL SPRING BREAK... BUT DON’T FORGET TO SIGN UP FOR PARENT/TEACHER CONFERENCES!   Sign-ups CLOSE on Saturday, March 18.  After that, you will need to contact the teacher if you need to sign up or reschedule.  Thank you for partnering with us to help your child succeed!  Per the Parent/Student Handbook, these conferences are [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 03.09.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 03.02.2023

by nvnzzeza • 2 March 2023
Parent/Teacher Spring Conferences Based on the partnership that is necessary for each student's success, it is an expectation of the school that parents sign up for a time to meet with teachers. Remember that this is a time to learn about your child's progress, ask questions, address concerns, and create goals for a successful academic [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 03.02.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.23.2023

by nvnzzeza • 23 February 2023
This is the Day the Lord has Made by guest contributor Mrs. Ruth Droogsma “This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” Ps. 118:2 I can still hear my parents’ voices echoing this morning verse at our farm breakfast table. What a blessing to have grown [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.23.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.16.2023

by nvnzzeza • 16 February 2023
 Don’t Give Your Kids the Message of Entitlement a Love and Logic article from Dr. Jim Fay  ​​Over the years, I’ve seen some friends and relatives who devoted their lives to protecting their children from inconvenience, discomfort, struggle, disappointment, embarrassment, and delayed gratification in any form. They sacrifice themselves, their own well-being, and even their [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.16.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.09.2023

by nvnzzeza • 9 February 2023
Enrollment Open to All!! Enrollment is now open for any new students and families in our larger community.  Current families are our biggest champions regarding the quality of education provided by St. John’s!  Parents, you have been so gracious to share your encouraging words and positive compliments with us.  Don’t forget to spread the word [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.09.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.02.2023

by nvnzzeza • 2 February 2023
YAY FOR BEANSTACK! Our own LSEM teacher, Mrs. Cadie Koosman, was one of ten school representatives to be interviewed by the Beanstack team based upon a request by their CEO.  Of our 171 registered students, 88% are actively reading and logging minutes on Beanstack!  (As a means of comparison, the Atlanta school district uses Beanstack, [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 02.02.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.26.2023

by nvnzzeza • 26 January 2023
NATIONAL LUTHERAN SCHOOLS WEEK! It’s National Lutheran Schools Week, and we’ve been celebrating!  We are proud to be one of 1,854 other Lutheran schools around our world.  These schools are scattered across 35 districts with 21,312 teachers supporting students in the classroom.  It’s amazing to be part of something bigger and a blessing that we [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.26.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.19.2023

by nvnzzeza • 19 January 2023
ENROLLMENT IS OPEN! Enrollment / Re-Enrollment is now open to our current St. John's families!  You received an email regarding this last Friday.   We plan to open enrollment to the rest of the community on February 1. The enrollment fee increases from $229 to $329 after Jan. 30.  This is a change from past enrollment [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.19.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.12.2023

by nvnzzeza • 12 January 2023
What "Chapel" Is in a Lutheran Church & School by guest contributor Rev. Matthew Moss Greetings in Christ! It is my great joy to write this week on the place of chapel services in our Lutheran day school at St. John's. I thank Mrs. Dolan and Mrs. Kuehne for the opportunity!   On the playground we [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.12.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.05.2023

by nvnzzeza • 5 January 2023
CALL COMMITTEE ASSEMBLED The St. John’s Lutheran Church deacon council has formed a call committee to fill the vacancy in 5th-8th grade (Language Arts emphasis) as well as to find a new 3rd grade teacher.  After 27 years of tireless service to St. John’s and a total of 38 years teaching, Mrs. Droogsma will be [...] The post Eagle Connection All-School Newsletter 01.05.2023 appeared first on St. John's Lutheran School.
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